I've been putting off sharing this because it was not for sure until late yesterday evening. Jeeves has a cousin who is having a very hard time. At 30 years old she is a mother of four, and currently three of her children are being cared for by others, and tomorrow morning we will be taking charge of her last, a 14 month old baby girl. The situation is not a happy one, and while I won't go into details, because why drag someone down even further, it is true to say that the baby is not in a safe, stable environment.
We will be driving the 3+ hours to Indiana to pick her up and then bringing her home for, well, we really don't know. I'll say as long as is needed to ensure that she is going to be healthy and safe if she returns to live with her mother. We felt that among the family, we were the most prepared to add a baby to the mix. Booger is only three and we haven't been sans-baby for very long. We have all of the accoutrement of baby-dom lurking in shadows in our home. Pulling them out and making them useful won't be that hard.
As a mother, my heart was breaking for this family. I know his cousin must want to care properly for her children and sincerely hope she gets whatever assistance she needs to do so. I hope this little girl feels safe here with us, and that we are doing the right thing for us and for them.
So if you've got a spare good vibe or prayer you can send our way, I'd appreciate it.
I've a feeling the next week is going to be a bit bumpy.
I'll try very hard not to turn to Mexican food if the stress becomes too great. but no promises...
8 comments:
I will keeping you all in my thoughts. It will be a huge adjustment for your entire family, but I am so glad you are stepping in to give this baby a safe, secure environment.
I also hope and pray that the children's mother gets the help needed.
((HUGS))
Wow! I am sending thoughts and prayers your way! I hope the mom is able to pull it together but I know you and your family will be great for that little girl. You can have Mexican just make a good choice!!
What a fantastic thing to do for the child..Mexican food, eh, you are inspiring...
You and Jeeves have such big hearts. His cousin is VERY lucky to have you both in her life, and in a position where you can open your home to her daughter. I'm definitely sending good vibes and thoughts your way. (((Ninja)))
This is a good thing you are doing. My best thoughts and prayers are winging your way.
Step away from the guac! ;)
Your family will definately be in my thoughts - people like you amaze me.
I'm sending good thoughts and prayers as you and your entire family work through this next difficult chapter. Thank goodness you are able to keep the baby safe!
What a wonderful thing to do- she is so beautiful and I send you all of my love and prayers.
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